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How to Spot a Narcissist

In this post, I am going to talk about, How to Spot a Narcissist and in some cases, it can be trickier than you would think! In general, a narcissist will aim to get you onside in order to facilitate their own needs. But in short, they make your life difficult if not...

Who Dates a Narcissist and Why?

In the last post on narcissism, I talked about the types if narcissist that exist, and here I am going to talk about why it can be difficult to identify a narcissist, why people have relationships with them and the type of person a narcissist will generally target....

Self Gaslighting

One of the most popular episodes of The Relationship Guy podcast so far has been the one where I talk about gaslighting, from July 2021. It is a term that has become commonplace in the media and is, in my opinion, used far too frequently to describe someone’s...

Spontaneous and Responsive Desire

When working as a couple’s therapist and now as a Relationship Empowerment Coach, one thing that would be discussed in sessions would be sex, naturally. In a lot of cases there was a disconnect on things like: who intimates it and how often it took place. One client...

Weaponized Incompetence

On Purpose or Accidental Incompetence? Do you find yourself saying – ‘Oh, just leave it then and I’ll do it’ or hearing things like – ‘You know you are better than me at doing that’ or that someone you know just never has the time to do the things they...